How to get your relationship back on track
When you are in the depths of a long-term or significant relationship it can be very hard to notice what is or isn’t working. You are emotionally attached and therefore you might find you are often reactive whenever your partner wants to talk about an issue.
Our Relationship Enhancement Coaching works because:
- We help our clients (usually a combination of 1:1 and 1:2) to become responsive rather than reactive by firstly showing them how to let go of unwanted negative emotions and thoughts from the past. We use a few different methodologies and we realise the importance of tailoring the right methodologies for the situation at hand and to suit the personality of the people we are working with. Often NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) is very helpful relationship re-building and reconnection.
- Once our clients are free of reactivity (or able to manage it well) we can help them to be more resourceful and creative with the way they communicate and show they really do care and love their partners.
- We inspire and encourage clients to become more creative and compassionate when it comes to brainstorming solutions to some of their problems. We help you with the application of the solutions by finding ways to make it fun for both of you. Sure, there may be some resistance to having fun because you have both programed each other to interact is a certain way over a period of time and it can feel “silly” or dismissive if it were to start being fun. “Don’t’ take yourselves so seriously!” is a phrase that needs to be on your fridge door. This important part of the program can result in significant progress with the enhancement and rekindling of their “spark” for each oth
- Reviewing your goals (individual and as a couple or family) is also important to include in the sessions. Realignment with your values is including in approach.
There are many practical ways to do this and our Relationship Enhancement-focused Life Coaches have a list of resources and the experience to help you have the renewed depth of connection you want with your partner you are craving.
This program is ideally for individuals and towards the end of the 1:1 coaching we can incorporate goal setting for couples – including both partners for 2-3 sessions.
Who can benefit?
It suits those of you in a strained relationship who may have found “Couples Counselling” to be prone to causing more arguments and even despair. This is not to say counselling isn’t or hasn’t been of value to many couples out there. We are simply offering a fresh and enhancing approach.
Don’t worry if your partner doesn’t want to come to the sessions. Great results can be produced when one person in a relationship chooses to create subtle, positive ripples within the relationship, for the greater good.
Call Sandy Ewing on 1300137706 or go to our contact us page now to book a complimentary phone consultation. or follow this link to arrange a mutually suitable time for this important call – https://calendly.com/sandy-coach/coaching-complimentary-phone-consultation